In an earlier blog, I discussed myths or beliefs parents believe that cause undue suffering. For those parents who have experienced estrangement from
Are Our Young Men Are at Risk of Becoming NILFs?
In my clinical practice, I have observed that parents of young men outnumber parents of young women in failing to launch 9:1. In national studies,
What’s Right With Twenty-Somethings?
A few months ago, I posted an article decrying the problem of twenty-something young adults. It was a bit tongue-in-cheek, but I cringe at the
Parents of Young Adults: Why We Suffer
“Making the decision to have a child - it is momentous. It is to decide forever to have your heart go walking around outside your body. ” ― Elizabeth
Is Your Young Adult Living at Home? If so, You Have a Roommate!
When a young adult is living with parents for any reason, it’s especially important to establish expectations and guidelines. In such situations, I
My Young Adult has Anxiety or Depression & I’m Afraid to Show Backbone
When challenged to show backbone with a young adult who is anxious or depressed, one of the common parental assumptions is that this could make things
Are You Unconditionally Loving Toward Your Young Adult?
There are six practices parents need to embrace or strengthen to successfully launch their young adults in the "right" way. The foundational practice
How to Apologize to Your Young Adult the Right Way
Rarely do altercations occur verbally or physically where both parties can’t reflect on something they did that was wrong or, at a minimum, not
Why Apologize to Your Young Adult if it Didn’t Happen or You Don’t Remember it?
I recently talked with my son and mentioned that I didn’t believe in spanking, but when his older sister lied to me, I sent her to her room and told