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The Book

Stop Worrying. Start Supporting.

The proven roadmap for parents whose adult children haven’t launched yet

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The Parent's Launch Code

Your adult child is stuck. You want to help, but nothing’s working.

You’ve tried encouraging them. You’ve tried setting boundaries. You’ve even tried stepping back completely. But they’re still living at home with no clear path forward. Or they’ve moved out but keep returning for rescue. Or they won’t even have a conversation with you about what’s next.

The Parent’s Launch Code gives you a different approach — one based on what actually works when young adults are struggling to launch.

What You’ll Learn

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The 6 Practices Model

A clear framework for supporting your adult child without enabling them.

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Why Typical Advice Doesn’t Work

Why “just kick them out” often makes everything worse.

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How to Rebuild Communication

Even when your child has shut you out or stopped talking.

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Setting Boundaries That Stick

Without guilt. Without rescuing. Without damaging the relationship.

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The Healing Practices

How apology and forgiveness can unlock progress.

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How to Let Go with Love

Saying goodbye to the parenting role while keeping the relationship intact.

Ready to Stop Spinning Your Wheels?

Available now on Amazon in paperback and Kindle

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Not sure if this book is for you? Read the first three chapters free.

You’ll get the Table of Contents, Introduction, Chapter 1, and Chapter 2 — enough to understand the 6 Practices framework and see why typical parenting advice doesn’t work when your adult child is stuck.

If it resonates, the full book is available on Amazon in paperback and via the Kindle app.

The Parent's Launch Code

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Dr. Jack Stoltzfus

About Dr. Jack

Jack Stoltzfus is a licensed psychologist who has spent over 30 years helping families navigate the transition to adulthood.

He developed The Parent’s Launch Code after working with hundreds of parents who were stuck in the same painful cycle: wanting desperately to help their adult children succeed, but watching every attempt backfire or make things worse.

The framework emerged from what worked — not textbook theory, but the real-life patterns he saw in families where parents successfully supported their young adults into independence while keeping the relationship intact.

Jack works with parents both in clinical practice (in Minnesota) and through coaching nationwide. He’s also training professionals across the country to use this approach in their own practices.

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America’s Launch Coach

Phone: 651-243-4933

Email: drjackstoltzfus@gmail.com

521 Tanglewood Drive
Shoreview, MN 55126

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